Hey guys, hope everyone is doing well. It has been a while. I have a lot to write about and now that I am done traveling for a while I may actually have time to get some posts done this week. I can't believe I am in the home stretch of my last semester of college and I feel like it has been flying by. I am enjoying it, but the fact that in the next two to three weeks I will figure out where I will live and what my career will be for the next few years is a little mind boggling. Anyways a lot has been going on recently so I have a few different things to post about.
This is about GF 2 and I. Her and I have been having a lot more sex recently, I'm not sure why but it has happened. More so than before. I wish I could say I learned some awesome tricks or something but clearly I am doing well cause she has been waking me up in the morning early just to get some, and she loves her sleep, and this is after having sex before we go to bed the night before. Anyways because of the increase of frequency our chance of mistakes was increased as well. She had just switched birth controls so the first month you are not protected and of course, I got drunk and we had sex and in the middle of doing it the condom came off and I didn't realize. I did realize it suddenly felt better but not until after we both got off did I realize that the condom was laying on the other side of the bed from one or two position changes ago. So I realize what has happened and know that I have to say something, and then I have to get up at 3 am and start looking online at what time the pharmacy across town opens up. This is not how I wanted my night to go.
I had to go to work in the morning and thankfully her roommate took her to get it, but that morning in the shower all I could think of was having a kid. And how kids with my current gf would be pretty great and that they would be smart and good looking (hopefully) and it was just something I could actually see in my future. And all day whenever I saw little kids and when I hand with my family later that week who has little kids in the back of the mind I wondered what a bunch of little "guys next door" would be like. (I need a better name for myself... and suggestions from the few people who actually read what I write?) Anyways this transition nicely into the next couple posts about my future and was something that stuck with me. I know plan B isn't that uncommon in college (it should be, but that is a whole other discussion about our generation, I don't care if you have sex but it really isn't that hard to get condoms, you can get them for free walking to class some days) but the whole thing made me think of my future and it cemented in my mind the idea that I want 2 or 3 kids and I want them to be biologically mine. I think....
Anyways guys that is it for now. Here is a great song that has nothing to do with my post but I have had it stuck in my head the past couple days.
From the point of view of someone who is a few decades past your stage -- your instincts about wanting kids are on target. Creating a family is the greatest thing you can do in life. The longer you put it off, the more problems you start running into. Set aside the indecision, ask GF2 to marry you, and get on with it. That's what sex (at your age) is for. Later on, it's mainly to bring you back to that great frame of mind when you were making babies together.
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